When I was first married, I truly believe in the holy vow of marriage is for a life time.  I still wished that it was the case for me because it is generally not in my nature to cheat on someone, furthermore cheat on my own husband.  But it has became apparent to me that my marriage is not what it used to be anymore, and my husband is not interested in me emotionally and definitely not physically.  Sure, my husband is there daily to provide for me and our children, but that is about all.  I am getting older, more mature, hitting my mid 30s, and I want someone to love me, woo me and romance me.  Since I have not be able to get any kind of affection from my husband of 10 years, I had to resort to an extramarital affair.

I would not say that I am super model type, but I still managed to keep myself attractive and fit over the years.  I am 5 foot 5, weighs just a little over 110 pounds, with figure of 34c 26 36.  I know I am still attractive to a lot of men because I still managed to get some intense stares and heckling from guys when I am on the beach in my 2 piece bikini.  A lot of people cheat because their spouse did not take care of themselves over the years, but I make it a point to stay attractive for my husband, that is why I don’t understand why my husband is not at all interested in me anymore.

Having an affair can be exhilarating

One day when I was watching Dr. Phil in the late afternoon as I was preparing dinner for my family, Dr. Phil had a segment on a dating website called Ashley Madison.  This turns out to be my personal savior.  Ashley Madison is a dating website targeting married individuals or individuals in a committed relationship.  It is a very discreet service because you can put as little information as you want, therefore protecting your identity.  Only when you feel like you have found someone that you can have an affair with, then you can begin to share more detailed information such as a close up picture of yourself.

I signed up with Ashley Madison and immediately got many interested men contacting me.  Granted, some of the men can be rude and are just plain pigs, eventually I found a few gentlemen who sparked my interest.  These gentlemen were honestly interested in me as a person, not just as another piece of meat, or looking for a quick laid.  I eventually found one gentleman, and we started off innocently just looking to fulfill each other’s void in life.  As time progresses, we found that we have more things in common and we began talking on the phone instead of through Ashley Madison’s website.  It was about 3 months ago we started seeing each other and having a physical relationship, and since we have never looked back and totally enjoyed our extramarital affair.

Having an affair is not for everyone, but it works for me

The point of my blog post is to show everyone that having an affair is a serious matter.  It is not for everyone.  Before you travel down the path of marital infidelity, make sure you have tried everything to make your existing relationship work first.  When and if you decide to have an affair outside of your marriage or relationship, make sure you choose a discreet affair dating website such as Ashley Madison.  Then just enjoy life again and make sure you practice safe sex with the person you are having an affair with.

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