Just in case you have missed it, Yahoo! recently featured an article detailing some stories of women who had cheated on their husbands.  The article is titled “Why I Cheated On My Husband” and it gives some insight as to why women in general look for companionship other than their spouses.  It should not come as a surprise to anyone that cheating on spouse (whether it is cheating on the husband or cheating on the wife) is prevalent nowadays.  Even though it is sad to see that so many people are cheating on their spouses, it has become such a daily occurrence everywhere.

For A Wife:  Why I Cheat On My Husband

Just like the Yahoo! article has indicated, most of the time a wife cheat on the husband because of abusive husbands, incompatible personalities, or the husbands just lost interests in their wives.  In all these cases, the wive ended up looking for companionship with another man who can satisfy her needs.  These needs might not be strictly sexual needs, but most of the time they are the emotional needs.  Wives wants to be loved, they want to feel wanted, they wanted to feel like the men needs and desires them.  I found a Russian woman and

For A Husband:  Why I Cheat On My Wife

Most of the the time, when the husbands cheat on their wives, they are looking just for the excitement of sex with another woman.  I am sure there might be some “legitimate” reasons for a husband to cheat on his wife, but generally speaking the men are just looking for new “pastures” to conquer.  Some men have the tendency to want more sex from different women, and that fuels the need for the extramarital affair.

Cheating Spouses

I am not justifying the “cause” (if there is a legitimate one at that) for one cheating on his or her spouse, but if you choose to do it, I do have some advice for you.  First, make sure that you are discreet about it.  Do not broadcast it so that everyone that you know of knows of your tryst.  Save some dignity for your spouse so that he or she does not get publicly humiliated.  Second, if you choose to have a sexual relationship, make sure you use protection.  Getting impregnated by your lover and not your husband or wife indefinitely will spark a divorce proceeding.   Having a child with your lover is not the worst case scenario.  If you are having sex with your lover, what if your lover has some kind of sexually transmitted disease (STD)?   Lastly, make sure that you are not cheating on your spouse with someone that your spouse knows.  This last advice is extremely important because you do not want someone to slip accidentally about your relationship with your lover.

So if you do choose to have an affair, make sure you have considered all the pros and cons.  I personally struggled with it, but ultimately succumb to the temptation of the extramarital affair.  I found myself a nice Russian woman whom I have an affair with for the last 5 years.  She made me feel alive and needed, and the wonderful sex that we share definitely is a plus.  I don’t plan on leaving my wife, but having the extramarital affair definitely helps me to stay focus on my marriage.  I do feel guilty about having an affair, hence I have treated my wife very well in the last few years.

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