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Just so that everyone knows in advance, I am not saying you should or should not have an affair outside of your marriage, but it is something you should really consider carefully before you choose to do so. It is true that having an affair can be fun and exhilarating. But if your spouse finds out, you should be prepared to lose your marriage, or at least have a difficult time trying to convince her you will be ending the affair.
I tried at first to find myself a mistress through work, a local bar but it just never work. If you try to have an affair with someone from work, you are taking the risk of other colleagues finding out, which can turn out to be awkward. Also there are sexual harassment policies setup in most companies nowadays that you might be subjected to. If so, your mistress can accuse of you sexual misconduct which could eventually cost you your job. If you try to find someone from a local bar, just the fact it is so close to your home, there is a good chance someone will recognize you and inform your wife of your tryst. Overall it is an extremely bad idea to carry out an affair with a co-worker or someone you have met in a local bar.
Here are some simple steps that I have used over the years to cheat on my wife:
Step 1: Make sure you have a secret bank account or credit card
If you want to keep this affair a secret, you need to have a secret way to pay for your tryst. Make sure that the bank statement or credit card statement is not send to your home. Most financial institution offer paperless statement so you should have the monthly statement sent to you in your personal email.
Step 2: Get a second cell phone
At some point during your extramarital affair, you will need to contact your mistress. You need a cell phone that cannot be traced back to you easily. Ideally get a prepaid disposable phone. But if your spouse finds your second cell phone, say that it is for work. Make all your calls to your mistress on this phone. Make sure that the statement of this phone goes to your email only.
Step 3: Use the Internet
Sign up with a married but dating website like www.ashleymadison.com. Make sure you use a credit card and phone information from step 1 and step 2 to be as secretive as possible. Then make sure you take advantage of the dating pool in Ashley Madison. Email/text chat/video chat with as many women as you can until you find one or two that you are really interested in.
Step 4: Setup your dates
When you setup your dates, make sure you give yourself enough time to cover your tracks afterwards. You don’t want to have your wife find you with some woman’s scent on you. Or worst yet, you don’t want a lipstick mark on your body or your clothes. You should make sure you have a chance to take a shower if you are having a sexual affair. You do not want to smell of your semen or your mistresses on your body when you walk into the door. Do not take any pictures or videos of your affair with another woman as it is just a recipe for disaster.
To summarized, just be careful if you choose to have an extramarital affair. It is definitely fun and rewarding but make sure you protect yourself, your spouse and your family also.