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Hi Everyone, Here is Part 3 of 3 of the Relationship Advice Video: What To Do When Your Partner Left You For a Narcissist. In This Video I explain how wanting to be back together with your ex-partner when the other man or woman is a Narcissist is a unique situation and what is the right thing to do and what is the right Mindset to have during the Meantime as you wait for your partner to return. For the full description of the Narcissist here the Link: wiki.answers.com For the Transcripts of the Video and for further Resources on Narcissists visit my Counsellor in a Box Blog at www.counsellorinabox.com and Love By Design Blog at www.lovebydesignbook.blogspot.com Other Websites Mentioned Counsellor in a Box Program at www.counsellorinabox.com and Love By Design Program at http Any questions you can reach Robby or myself at relationshipcentre@shaw.ca Warm Regards, Melody Chase
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Continue Reading »Optimism: Long Term Marriage is Alive and Well in the USA
Okemos, MI (PRWEB) July 1, 2009
Marriage and its longevity are alive and well according to psychologist and optimism blogger Dr. Russ Buss (Moment-to-Moment Optimism, June 22 – 29), and New York Times columnists Benedict Carey and Tara Parker-Pope (SundayStyles, June 28, 2009, “Marriage Stands Up for Itself”).
In his June 29, 2009 post, Dr. Russ Buss asks: “Will Mark and Jenny Sanford make it? If the publicly humiliated marriages of Clinton, Spitzer, and Edwards are any guide, the answer is more likely – yes?” Can Marital Optimism be found in the Mark Sanford affair?
According to columnists Benedict Carey and Tara Parker-Pope of the New York Times: “The marriage bond is far stronger in 21st century America than many assume . . . recent trends . . . suggest that the institution itself has become more resilient in recent years, not less so.” They conclude that despite a 50 year onslaught against the institution of marriage – liberal divorce laws, diminished stigma of divorce, and now a multitude of internet temptations–many millions are “shrugging-off” and “working-through” not only outright infidelity, but strong suspicions of it.
The bottom line from Dr. Russ Buss: “Optimism in marriage appears to abound as couples are choosing to avoid a ‘learned helpless’ state and instead choosing to overcome tough problems; make the marriage work through ‘hard work’.”
Some of Dr. Russ Buss’s tips for making the marriage work:
1. To enjoy the many playful moments of a long term marriage, you must work hard in all the other moments to make it happen.
2. Don’t let one bad moment become one monumental, monstrous moment. Expect to have problems, but focus on the solutions, not the fault.
3. In any moment of anger remember “that moment” is driven by the “soft-underbelly” of hurt. Overreaction to the other’s acts, words, forgetfulness, and errors of omission are usually brought on by false assumptions about the other’s motives.
4. Take ten moments a day and tell the other what you really liked and appreciated in him/her this day.
5. In a moment when you think you are sick and tired or “her-stuff,” remember she has put up with just as many moments, if not more, of “your-stuff,” and vice versa.
6. For a long-term, optimistic and satisfying marriage be involved with all your family before, during and for the rest of your married life.
7. By now Governor Mark Sanford and Senator John Ensign should have learned that the “affair” relationship is an “acting out” of a fantasy, that bears none of the burdens of a marriage.
8. Choosing the psychological escape of the affair is a form of “Relational Pessimism;” a “learned helpless” orientation; giving up on working together to solve the relational problems within the marriage.
9. Instead of succumbing to the “escape fantasy,” the “Relational Optimist” seeks marriage counseling, consultation with a minister, priest, parents, grandparents, relatives, friends, and self-help books; making every effort to repair the marriage internally.
For a plethora of tips on how to make a marriage a long-term, optimistic partnership, get on board and check out the blog: http://www.drrussbuss.com.
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Author Offers Prizes for Readers Of Make Up Don’t Break Up
New York, NY (PRWEB) February 27, 2011
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil, author of Make Up Don’t Break Up, which is nominated for a Reader’s Choice Award for Best Dating Book 2010, offers voters a chance to win a gift certificate.
“My book has helped thousands of couples stay connected, committed, and learn how to share their grievances without developing anger and resentment,” says Dr. Bonnie who adds that she has created a contest so that voters have a chance to win a $ 150 gift certificate, by following simple instructions.
The book Make Up Don’t Break Up, newly updated with additional information and statistics about adultery offers couples understanding and explanations for why partners cheat and commit adultery. “The memberships are through the roof for online dating sites like ashleymadison.com, helping hook married people up with dates,” says Dr. Bonnie who was recently featured in a documentary on the Discovery Health Channel on adultery.
“More women are cheating than ever before. And, no one understands the real reasons that lead to infidelity,” explains Dr. Bonnie, adding that the reason people cheat is because of a bio chemical craving for connection. “People cheat because they are trying to fulfill a (non-sexual) unmet need to feel connected. Cheating is also a self-soothing behavior for people experiencing high levels of stress and anxiety, or who thrive on adrenalin.”
Dr. Bonnie teaches couples how to have “Smart Heart” dialogues. When people are skilled in these techniques, they forge deeper and more meaningful relationships through conversations that help couples understand each other better.
Harville Hendrix, PhD, founder of Imago Relationship International writes in the foreword of Make Up Don’t Break Up: “This is among the most helpful, complete, and positive manuals for saving a relationship that I have seen.”
To vote for Make Up Don’t Break Up and a chance to win a $ 150 gift certificate, go to http://www.tinyurl.com/votebook and “Like” Dr. Bonnie’s Make Up Don’t Break Up Facebook page. The voter must leave a message on her wall that they voted to be in a drawing held on March 9th. The deadline for voting is March 8th. 3 people will each win a $ 150 gift card to one of the following places:
Walmart
Ruth Chris Steakhouse
Best Buy
Visa Gift Card
Olive Garden
For further instructions, find out about more about Make Up Don’t Break Up, or purchase a copy of the book visit http://www.doctorbonnie.com.
Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil (Dr. Bonnie) is a relationship expert who was named by Psychology Today as one of America’s best therapists, and by New York Magazine as one of New York City’s best therapists. Known as “The Adultery Buster” and the “No. 1 Love Expert,” she is the best-selling author of Adultery: The Forgivable Sin (adapted into a Lifetime movie starring actress Kate Jackson), Make Up Don’t Break Up, Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples (Revised edition Feb 2010, including DVD How to Fall in Love and Stay in Love for Singles and Couples), Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?, Staying Not Straying, How Not to (S)mother Your Man and Keep a Woman Happy, and Financial Infidelity; The #1 Relationship Wrecker.
Dr. Bonnie has appeared on ABC’s Good Morning America, a three-day series on NBC’s The Today Show, The Oprah Winfrey Show five times, a four day series on Fox TV regarding dating, Discovery Health documentary “Infidelity” and A&E on addictions. She appears frequently on ABC, Fox, CBS and NBC News, The View, 20/20, and CNN. Visit Dr. Bonnie at http://www.DoctorBonnie.com.
For interview contact Diane Dennis, Inspired Media Communication at 503-678-1356 or dianeden(at)centurytel(dot)net
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